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My little boy Jimmy who is 8 has been complaining that his knee has been hurting since Tuesday. There are no bruises and he says he hasn't injured it but keeps limping and saying it stiff and hurty  . I know it's probably just a normal injury but can't help but wonder. I was actually diagnosed as having RA when I was 7 as I'd had problems with my hips. My mum didn't believe the doctors because the pain disappeared when I was about 9 (take Junior Aspirin and come back if it gets worse) Junior aspiring cured everything in those days  . I never had any symptoms again until I was pregnant with Jim. Strange mother worries. My partner would probably think I was bonkers if I mentioned this. Julie
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o Julie, i can completely understand this. & I know its much easier said than done but try not to dwell on what ifs too much. It might be a good idea to arrange appointment / speak to dr to physically examine and then perhaps have a chat with the rheumatology nurse so u can talk about your fears and concerns. I worry about both my girls - you're not on your own, we cant help but worry. Take care and hope you manage to get some advice and talk this through, keep in touch love Liz xx
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Hi Julie, I can understand you worrying about this. As his knee's been hurting for almost a week now it would be best to get it checked with by your GP. Hope it turns out to be nothing to worry about.
Doreen xx
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Hi Julie,
I would be just the same. As Doreen says, it has been a week so it should be checked out anyway. Hope that it is a football injury or whatever little lads get up to.
Eleanor x
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Julie, I don't think it's bonkers at all to have this worry. I'd have been on to the gp already to arrange an appointment if it was me. My daughter's 37 and if she gets a pain in any joint I worry!
I just think you have nothing to lose by getting the doctor to see Jimmy; and if it did turn out to be nasty RA then at least he'd be diagnosed before too much damage could occur. But of course, it's probably just the result of a football injury or something similar.
Anthea x
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I have to agree with everyone else. We all worry about the possibility of our children (and our grandchildren) getting this awful disease. As your little one has had a bad knee for a week, you possibly should get him checked out - he could have chipped a bone or damaged the cartilage in his knee.
Take care
Love Jeanxxxxx
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Thanks for your replies - it's nice to be able to tell someone without them thinking I'm just being a fussy mother. Only reason I haven't taken him to the docs is because it doesn't hurt him in the day when he is at school just at night an in the morning - started about 7pm last night and he complained a couple of times before he went to bed. He mentioned it again this morning but I didn't make too much of it and will see if he mentions it later. If he does, will try to get an appointment.
Julie
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Hi Julie, I totally understand, my youngest son often complains of painful stiff joints and he sometimes gets a temperature with them. The doctor dismissed me, but as he sees a paedatrician for his asthma, I mentioned it to them and they are monitoring him. It hasn't developed but it gave me peace of mind, to be listened to. They think at the moment it is because he plays so much football.
I was told to check his temp when it happened and note which joints and how long stiffness lasts. I hope your son picks up, and that if you do take him to the gp they take you seriously.
Deb x
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Julie, good luck with all this,i think a chat with the GP would be good even if just to set your mind at rest? YES I'VE CHANGED, PAIN DOES THAT TO PEOPLE.
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I am like this with my children too.
The thing is- the older 2 are adopted so there is no genetic link at all. but it does make you more aware, my son has hypermobile joints (what used to be called double jointed) he is obsessed with sport, rugby is his thing at the moment, he is long thin and super fit.
I have had the wobbles with Bernice when she has a hyper sensitivity with salicyate benzoates and had to see an "immunologist" it felt too close to comfort rather.
Anyway, they have both had blood tests and the esr bit was always fine.
it does make you more aware.
Jenni xxhow to be a velvet bulldoser
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Dear Julie,
I truly empathise with you and it is entirely natural that it would cross your mind.. I would take your little son to the Dr's just to be reassured..
My daughter Marie has suffered severe growing pains for years and I would get myself into such a panic over her. When she turned eight, then nine I was vigilant as this was when I was dx..(nearly nine after a terrible gymnatsics fall).
With all my children I worry daily about the likliehood of them developing rheumatoid, and I pray they never will.
Much love,
Amanda
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PS; Yes! Junior aspirin or brufen for everything at that age....I was full of those pills for years and years...
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Hi Julie,
Agree with the others it's natural response and would be thinking along the same lines. I'm always worrying about my daughter, like her mother she's hyper mobile too, and we've both had discs pop, and when she complains of pain in her joints I think please god no. Usually I'm worrying over nothing.....
Best for him to see the GP and to do mention your concerns.
love,
Barbara XXXXXX
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I remember having "growing pains" when I was young. I don't know if it's anything to do with RA.
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Me, too, Lyn; I was often being told "oh, it's just growing pains" and since having RA have wondered whether it was some kind of warning.
Anthea x
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Totally understand your concern Julie, when ever my little one says he has pain in his legs i always worry, but to put your mind at rest i would book appointment with your doctor
Sophie x
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